Problems in couple.

Maybe you know or maybe not, about those "internal" and "external" types of people. 

➡️Internal are those whom motivation comes from within themselves. They decide about the quality of their work and usualy don't accept other people's oppinion and outside direction.
➡️External need outside direction and permanent feedback from external sources to stay motivated.

Motivation is what keeps us alive. So it's good to remember this clasification. 

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Each of us is fairly External to our parteners. This means that we all tend to test if we receive support, attention and respect from the one we live with.

😡SHOWING CONTEMPT FOR A PARTENER IS THE NUMBER ONE REASON FOR BREAKUPS.

🤗SHOWING KINDNESS EVEN WHEN IN A FIGHT IS WHAT BINDS PEOPLE TOGETHER.